Friday, August 13, 2010

Dance of Life

"Nah, I'll come get you", K said just before she hung up. K and I met up for dinner a couple of weeks ago. It's been over five years since I met her. We ended up having a great time, probably one of my best dinners in and around Houston, and reminiscing the good old days.

We've both had our share of difficult times since then. And in their differences, they have been kind of similar. We chose to get over them in different ways. I buried myself in work, so much so I had no time for much else. K did the same, but with a difference. She buried herself in something she loved doing. She still does it today, almost a year later, with such enthusiasm that just bursts with freshness each time. In most of our trials, the ends justify the means. It's not to say that what one does is better than the other. But in our acceptance of what has happened, we often decide, unknowingly, what we were always meant to do. Hopefully a glimpse of what life has in store for us - for the better.

Otherwise K hasn't changed much. She's still as chic as ever, but worries about how good she'll look in every snap. Still dances as if no one's watching. Still has that mischevious honesty in her eyes.

One of my recent favourite songs played on the car stereo on our way back. "I've been doing some singing too of late. Let me sing along with this one, tell me what you think eh?" K was at it as we swept through the Houston night. In a little stray thought that played in my head, the night was suddenly silent, except for the wind through the trees whistling my admiration out loud.

I had a smile as I walked up back to my room at the hotel. Call me behind the times if you would, but independent, confident women always give me goosebumps.

6 comments:

mathew said...

I dont think I can quite explain why, but I liked that post. especially the drive back and post drop-off. I just think its the simplicity of the thought in your mind that struck me.

In any event, I'm still not forgiving you for not making the NY trip.

Matt

Little Miss: said...

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deedee said...

now that I have me own blog, makes it easier to follow another and remind me to read your posts :) BTW, this post brought a smile to my face.

Please and Thank You said...

Nice.

CJ said...

@matt: as discussed, it shall be soon, my friend :)

@little miss: thank you! i hope you stumble across it more often :)

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@p&ty: thanks!

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